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Originally Posted by divine1966
Well of course these are all important things. I was just trying to say that it will take more than that one question especially if there is a danger that the person pretends to be introspective. And surely many pretend and do an excellent job. People can say anything to get you hooked especially if they have ulterior motives. And narcissists are great at that. I don’t want to sound jaded but I am just being real. You are very trusting which is endearing quality but it causes you to be a prey of men who say all the right things
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Thanks, divine. I agree that it takes more than just one question. This is simply one question that one can ask. And of course it takes more than just that - it takes really getting to know a person's character first - which I overlooked with my husband - lesson learned!!! I am trying to NOW learn from all my past mistakes with men. I will not be so trusting going forward - that's for sure.