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Originally Posted by rdgrad15
For me, if someone starts talking in a baby like voice or treating someone like they are a two year old who doesn't know anything, that's when I start getting annoyed and feel like their politeness is forced.
The worst part is when they are talking in a baby voice like you're some child who doesn't know any better.
I've had that happen where I get the sense that someone who is treating me or even someone else like they are stupid or treating them like some child.
Especially if someone is telling me how to do something I already know how to do.. even though I know how to do my job I've been doing for over four years, treating me like I'm stupid and randomly assume I don't know how to do something or just can't do it.
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With regards to your job, it may be your colleagues just don't trust you. If you're struggling with assertiveness, confidence, and codependency, it may spill over to how others feel about your job performance. Whether or not you "know" your job, it doesn't sound like you've proven yourself to the influential (key) people in the room. There may be something you're doing or not doing that has them believe they can't rely on you on something so simple as, taking transit.
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Another thing that annoys me is when someone is so overly polite that they wind up doing things for others they don't actually want to do, resulting in resentment over time.
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This is an example of codependency.