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Old Dec 27, 2020, 07:59 AM
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I just shared my forgiveness post on one of my women's Facebook abuse groups, and the one comment I've had so far said "move on".

Those words are so meaningless and inappropriate to me - insensitive as well to the fact that moving on is a PROCESS. It takes getting through all the anger, rage, disappointment and then moving through stages of sadness, grief and despair even. It takes getting to a place finally of acceptance and greater peace about a relationship or marriage ending. GEEZ!

So to simply say "move on", I feel is sooo insensitive and unhelpful. I told this poster as much.
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