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Old Dec 27, 2020, 08:37 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
They don’t know you. It’s just social media.

If you feel the need to formally forgive, then that’s what you do. Everyone does things differently. Moving on is not that simple.
You said it - everyone does things differently, and moving on is not so straight forward or simple. It's a different process for everyone.

I did formally forgive two former abusers - and you know what? I feel really good about it! I don't expect replies back, nor do I want one or even care. I feel like something was released inside me for doing so - all the pain I was carrying around for years.
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