He's at it again - he's at the apartment now moving more things out, while I have vacated and am at my parents' home camping out. He's telling me via text once again that this could have been fixed, that he wasn't of sound mind when he was texting sweet nothings with his co-worker (again, telling me because I called the police), and then saying that we could have worked this out with therapy. I didn't even reply to any of those texts and I did not engage in it. I'm proud of myself!!!

I kept it strictly to business items and conversation only.

Then he tells me I owe him the courtesy of a conversation in person, after being together for 3 years. I told him I will not see him until I am good and ready. Courtesy? Come on, please. What do I owe HIM? Nothing. It's yet another guilt trip and attempt at manipulation.