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Originally Posted by Starry_Night
I spent Christmas evening with my therapist for the whole night. It was really nice. This therapist gives me contact whenever I need. However, my old therapist would never have done that. Old therapist made it clear that she did NOT think about clients over holidays and dont bother her. That was always so hard. But current t actually texted me and asked if I would like to share the day with her.
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Sounds like two extremes of the same issue to me: trouble with boundaries. I imagine it's hard for you to do work around your own boundaries with poor modelling from your therapists.
I am interested in whether your therapist charged you for spending Christmas together and how you contracted for the conditions of this strange session; duration, location, cost, etc.
I would be deeply troubled, and actually rather disgusted, if my therapist behaved like this. I don't like it when she texts or emails me in an unprompted way, never mind to invite me to spend a significant evening with her. Hard pass from me.