With regards to your job, it may be your colleagues just don't trust you. If you're struggling with assertiveness, confidence, and codependency, it may spill over to how others feel about your job performance. Whether or not you "know" your job, it doesn't sound like you've proven yourself to the influential (key) people in the room. There may be something you're doing or not doing that has them believe they can't rely on you on something so simple as, taking transit.


This is an example of codependency.