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Originally Posted by MsLady
Is it possible that what you're seeing in others (and their flaws) is what you instinctively know about yourself? For example, you notice when someone is interrupting others because you may yourself have this tendency or have been personally exposed to this problem?
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Yeah I'm sure that is a possibility. I used to have problems making friends in high school and even college, although not as much of a problem. It's very likely I entered conversations where people thought, "Why is he here? He isn't invited or wanted." And usually now, in the rare chance I do enter a conversation and try to meet others, I catch on very quickly if I'm not actually wanted. Doesn't happen as much anymore since I wait for people to come to me, but if I do enter a conversation unwanted, I do pick up on it very fast and I leave immediately.