Jessicag, I am so sorry for what you're going through. I discovered my husband was attempting to start a new "cyber relationship" again yesterday (the way he deals with things when times get tough is to run away and find what I call his "feel good fix"), and I ended our marriage as well. I am almost 20 years older than you, so I have a bit more life experience behind me which will make the going easier, but I still share your pain.

When women give our love, and our trust, we expect the same in return, and we should. Love means different things to different people, male or female, and I think that's where the issue lies. Love to me means putting others before yourself, to my husband it means something different. I have to accept that it's who he is, and try and stay strong for my kids. Being pregnant, my life isn't my own right now, but yours is. Please know that happiness is possible, and it is what you deserve.

Feel free to lean on me whenever you need it. If my life lessons can help you in anyway, it's just more proof that everything happens for a reason.

xoxo