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Old Dec 28, 2020, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted by rdgrad15 View Post
Yeah same here, although I've gotten better at it compared to my high school years over ten years ago.
And you will continue to make gains @rdgrad as we all do from observing and experiencing how others interact with each other and towards us.

That being said, when someone's behaviors leave you feeling bad or disrespected, that's something to sit and think about in your own effort to become more "self" aware. Perhaps you take things more personally than you should. As you observe the behaviors of others as you often like to do, it's important that while you do so that you also develop the capacity to understand that when the other person behaves a certain way towards you it's often their lack and not yours. Truth be told, it's actually very common for other people to lack true self awareness. Often people develop behaviors they think work best for them as they navigate and interact that become habits.

Last edited by Open Eyes; Dec 28, 2020 at 04:10 PM.
Thanks for this!
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