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Old Dec 28, 2020, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
SIGH..... I know in my logical brain that you are correct. In my emotional brain I cannot seem to help myself from reacting to him and so my fingers start typing and I don't hold back. GRRRRRRRRRRRR. It's maddening to me that I cannot control my reactions!
It’s ok not to hold back. I’d get it if you told him “f you jerk leave me alone” or if you tell him you are angry. But don’t tell him that you are crying and he broke you, even if that’s how you feel. Don’t show him your weakness, show him your strength or indifference. He doesn’t deserve to know how upset you are. You’ve been reading about narcissists. Don’t show them weakness
Thanks for this!
Have Hope, Rose76, RoxanneToto