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Old Dec 28, 2020, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Pay attention that he doesn’t say he needs help and he needs to get better. He specifically says “you think I need help”, “ you say I need to get better”. So he doesn’t really think he needed to get better. He is placating you and says he is willing to appease you because that’s what you think.

Also pay attention how he pretty says verbatim how it’s your fault for not forgiving. Your fault in misunderstanding his actions. You are the one who doesn’t understand true forgiveness. So you caused all this

Even in him begging and pleading he remains true a$$hole. Terrible person. And he thinks women are dumb and buy this crap. It’s almost like he knows he says crap but he doesn’t even care if it’s sounds crappy
You're last two sentences literally made me LOL laugh out loud. Too funny!

And you are very astute to point out these things! Yes, he's still placing blame on me - even in trying to be nice.
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