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Que Sera Sera
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Default Dec 29, 2020 at 01:32 AM
 
what candc said is absolutely right! i hope you realize what an extremely awesome sister you are!
i have both a brother-in-law and a nephew who each suffer from their own particular "form(s)" of the disease and it is NOT an easy task to commit yourself to and remain to be a constant presence in their lives.
its very difficult to "toughen up" when hanging in there with them means having to deal with what ever might be going to happen at any time that something could be the next thing to happen.
they rage in anger and key your car ...
the hours upon hours of rambling nonsensical jibberish on and on about who know what in the world but them has any of what any of what all they ramble endless on and on about means..
but you nod and listen and ask questions and repeat things back to them and laugh and show shock and act surprised ..
you remember the nuances of the seperate "entities" and act accordingly to those occassions .
you cling and beg and cry and yell and scream and argue and talk them out of ending their life or harming themselves or from killing someone else...
you exhaust yourself making never ending frustrating attempts to interject the here, the now, whats current to this day in hope to find a "trigger" to snap em back to reality again...
you have explained the situation to a vast network of every law enforcement agency, neighbor, business owner, public transport agency, strangers on the street from here to timbucktoand so they know to get ahold of you and how to reach you in case something comes up .. and it has, and they have... and you have and will continue to condend with every problem on the other end of that phone call that wakes you up at 2 am ....
and you, ramblinclemintine, do all because thats the kind of amazingly awesome person you are!
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