I am single and I am happy with it. I am 50. Got you all beat.

Honestly, every guy I met just wasn't worth it. Perhaps it is that I have high standards and I wanted something not in my league. But I knew that each and every one of them would not be worth it. At a certain point I just realized that being with someone was not in the cards for me. Now of course, if someone great enters in my life, I am not going to throw him out.. but it is not shameful to not be with someone. Imho it is more shameful to settle and be miserable so you can do what society tell you to.

I have seen so many women of my generation go though crazy drama with regard to relationships... I knew it wasn't for me. Many of my friends spent their entire savings on their weddings only to get divorced and be penniless. Many had a long term boyfriend who never proposed and left them for someone younger (taking up their entire dating life). Perhaps that was the time and the generation. But it was what it was.