I agree, it is uncomfortable. My therapist used to do something similar for me (not food related) when we were meeting in person before Covid. I appreciated her effort and it made me feel... welcomed? borne in mind? .. but I also cringed because it seemed too intimate. I would struggle to tell her that I feel uncomfortable about it because she valued the gesture. She told me that she enjoyed making the effort and that she did it in recognition of our time together. I would feel churlish or a misery guts if I voiced my negative response.
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