Thank you for all of your responses, they are very helpful. It’s nice to put it out there and get some opinions.
I really appreciate her efforts but I always feel uncomfortable when people go to great efforts for me or when I am in an intimate situation. T eats breakfast with me and it’s not a big deal for her as she doesn’t have the same issues with food as I have- I am assuming that.
It’s all grist for the mill and something I need to bring up with her next time. She always makes me feel very welcome and I have had other therapists that would never dram of doing this.