Dear BlueCheesePlease,

Oh, that whole situation sounds just awful. Just awful. If I was a training counselor, I would definitely offer you some things to try but sadly I am neither a physician or medical professional of any kind. Is there some kind of professional counselor you could contact who might be able to help you with this distressing, stressful and draining situation? You deserve do much better from life than what you are getting! Hopefully others here in a somewhat similar situation will see your post and will have something really helpful to say. I am so very sorry you are in this situation and also sorry that I do not know how to be helpful to you. You deserve a break!

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen