Where are ALL these women who want a man for his personal characteristics and don't care about his looks? LOL

To address some of the comments made earlier. Yes , I agree that it's an unconscious security thing to hang on to negative thoughts but I'm trying to work on that. It's not that simple. Someone else mentioned that no woman would want to be around a guy who's negative and puts himself down. Agreed. That's obvious but I have to point out we here are in a forum where we vent and share things we wouldn't do upon getting to know someone for the first time. Believe me, I'm not this way in regular life. All I'll say though is two weeks in the personals with roughly 3000 women looking and not one reply says it all. ... Just a thought. I've never heard of a woman wanting to pinch a man's mind.