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Originally Posted by Have Hope
One of my close girlfriends says I am just as responsible for allowing the abuse.
I feel very victim blamed!
I see my mistakes and fault in all of this -- but to say that I allowed this? I take umbrage to that. She is one to beat herself up more than I do in life - she is beating herself up right now for not living up to her own expectations of herself in life.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.
I need my friends, but sometimes I don't feel like processing this with them anymore.
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Iam SO sorry, people who say things like that are ignorant and cause even more pain. 'When you blame me, you shame me, and keep me silent."
I stayed for 31 years, we can only do what we can do, when we are ready.