Thread: Need support through leaving my abusive husband, please
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Old Dec 30, 2020, 07:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Marie123 View Post
Iam SO sorry, people who say things like that are ignorant and cause even more pain. 'When you blame me, you shame me, and keep me silent."
I stayed for 31 years, we can only do what we can do, when we are ready.
Thank you.

And sooooo true. I am not happy about her response to me and am deciding what to do about it, if anything. I may/may not say something to her, or I may simply choose not to process this anymore with her.

And that's such a wise statement - we can only do what we can and not before we are ready.
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