Is this a long-term relationship? Boyfriend?

I would dump him ASAP. There are so many red flags here telling me he is abusive within your short description of this one incident.

First of all, telling you how to pick up the broken glass was controlling of him - RED FLAG. Him criticizing you for using a glass instead of a cup was also very controlling and overly critical - RED FLAG. Then he refused to help you? Mean and another RED FLAG.

Then he accuses you of not asking about his kids, when clearly there was no real reason to - another RED FLAG. Then he verbally hits you below the belt, in knowing full well of your history and why you cannot have children - most HURTFUL and another RED FLAG.

Substance abuse to boot? RED FLAG.

DUMP HIM. Don't put up with this crap one second longer. You deserve FAR BETTER.

Hugs to you!