I am a little shocked that you threatened to call police to stop your wife visiting her friend with the kids? What would police do? And why? Is she not allowed to go places without you? Not allowed to take kids places? I have a feeling there is more to the story. You sure not going to get more sex by not allowing your wife to take kids on a trip, threatening is not a good strategy.

I was going to suggest marriage therapy but I am not sure now. Something just doesn’t sound right