Yeah, something in your story is not adding up. Why did you go to the extreme in threatening to call the police? Have the police ever been involved before in your marriage? Has that threat ever been made?

Rather than get angry, have you tried to calmly ask your wife about your sex life and what it is SHE may need in order to be more in the mood?

How old are you both? Is she entering menopause? Sex drive wanes quite a bit as we age.

IF the marriage is a happy one otherwise, why would you consider a divorce over sex issue?