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Old Dec 30, 2020, 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Mountaindewed View Post
I learned what grounding is. I learned this type of breathing where you breathe in for 3 seconds, then let it out for 3 seconds. I learned that a thought is just a thought. One of the big ones I learned is that if I’m having a negative thought or feeling if I wait about 15 minutes it will most of the time pass.

The med increases are helping and I was able to get onto a better sleep schedule by going to bed at the same time, putting my phone away at night, and using the deep breathing I learned and using my weighted sleep mask and weighted blankets and my other sensory stuff every night instead of just some nights.
These are great coping skills! All have been helpful for me over the years, particularly the grounding and the concept that negative thoughts can and do pass. I mean, how many of us have felt the world sucked one minute and then with just a single change things can look different. I guess that's where the old saying "This, too, shall pass." comes from. I also think challenging cognitive dysfunctional thoughts (CBT tool) and several DBT coping skills also drive that home.
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Mountaindewed
Thanks for this!
*Beth*, Mountaindewed