**vent post** kind of feeling a bit hurt right now. I don’t want to get my friend, caught in the middle so I am dropping the issue. We have plans New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day. One of his good friend, has a birthday on New Year’s Day but he told me last weekend he doesn’t want to go anywhere. Guess he felt bad because now he is going to a dinner he’s hosting 50 per person...(yep undisclosed location) He has known him 20+ years and me 3, so I was like whatever I’ll make other plans Friday. I don’t want him to feel bad, because he did try to invite me but then he told him “I rather have just the fellas for this one” I mean, I don’t want him to have to choose but in all fairness he made plans with me so he should have told him that I feel. I know his friend is jealous of me in the worst way so I’m not surprised. I never did anything wrong to him either. He told him he hangs out with me too much, then on two occasions talk sh** about me behind my back and my friend told him off. I am going to just leave New Year’s Day after I wake up and say I have other plans so I can’t leave late. The dinner or whatever isn’t until 6, but I don’t want to stick around it will only make me feel worse. I’ve been nothing but nice to his friend so I really don’t understand it. I’ve shared my time with him, when we have plans and his friend wants to come over...then trying to control the evening. I’ve been unselfish and shared food that was especially for me...well never again. For now on, if he invites me anywhere and his friend is there, I will decline. I have a hard time believing it’s 100% men there but maybe I’m wrong..I saw the text.