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Originally Posted by divine1966
How can he be rejecting you when you said you are done with him. He just talking crap. “It doesn’t matter what you want. I am done with you. How you feel about me being done with you is irrelevant to me. Good bye”
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The feeling of the break up was one’s fault or mutual, all the rehashing of the fight, is an instinctual thing to want to do for closure.
In a divorce- ‘I am done with you and how you feel is irrelevant’ That says is honestly all there is to it. Divorce is cold and sometimes cruel.
One of you has to file for divorce. If you already gave a deposit to a lawyer, you should just file. Then he has to respond and will use his own lawyer. You do not care at that point about how, why, when, what he does.