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Sometimes the TRUTH needs to be said about how we feel whether it hurts or not. It would be something to feel guilty about If that was NOT how you truly felt but said it to only be hurtful.
I believe in bad relationships where we want out & the other person is trying to CLING ON that hurtful is sometimes necessary.. it doesn't necessarily mean toxic.....sometimes it is the only way to cut THEIR TIES & make it final.....this can be in marriage or just friendships that need to be ended. But we have to cut communications at that point too. I just don't mess around with people I don't want in my life any more. I take a stand so they don't wonder about my thoughts....then I end the communication or friendship & if on social media, block if it becomes necessary. I have no tolerance for other people crap any more. Used to just let it slide & ignore. Now I take actions & remove. Yes, age, wisdom....& a lot of self-confidence
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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