i agree with @Open Eyes. It seems like your Wife doesn't seem to enjoy or want to have sex that much. Have you tried to talk to her about ALL of this and see how it goes from there if you haven't already done it, of course? Perhaps there are some specific reasons why she acts this way. i must also agree with the others that calling the police was rather unnecessary, although i UnderstAnd your frustration if she didn't warn you before that. SEnding many Safe, Warm hugs to BOTH you, @TheWhiteSheep, your Family, your FriEnds and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!