On my abuse Facebook group, one woman told me that my husband is probably experiencing narcissistic injury because I am leaving and it hits his ego HARD. This woman told me to watch out now because once he truly accepts that it's over, he will do anything and everything to hurt me.

She knows because she too married a narcissist.

It's the new year, and I am still in the thick of a separation and pending divorce. I cannot file papers myself because it costs $250 more - money I do not have except for from the bank loan.

My husband has tried two angles so far to get me to delay the divorce - one angle was that he goes to therapy for the next several months, while we continue to live apart, and then eventually, he moves back in. I said no. The other angle was that we stay married for several more months so that he can continue paying my health insurance to help me out. I said no, and I will work on getting my own health insurance through the government.

No wonder he suddenly flipped and said "I don't want to be married to you either". He is just trying to hurt me. Unfortunately, it worked and I reacted.

I am really sick of all of this and cannot believe I still have to go through it for God knows how long.

I told him on no uncertain terms that he must have all his crap out of the apartment by the end of this month. He stored his crap in his ex wife's home FOR THREE YEARS AFTER they had separated!!! He was going to allow ME to KEEP HIS security deposit of $900 because I need the money and don't have the money to pay him. So yesterday I told him keep your $900 because you'll need it to hire movers by the end of the month.

All I can say is HE BETTER hire movers and he better get all his stuff out of here as agreed upon by Jan 31. I will be beyond livid if he tries to drag this out any further.