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Old Jan 01, 2021, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
I hope you press for a full explanation for what to expect from your lawyer. You have a sister who is a lawyer. You got this!

If you are thinking he will file first when he doesn’t want the divorce you are likely kidding yourself.

You are separated now. The emotional rehashing happening is separate from the legal process of getting divorced. I really want to stress this importance to you and now I’ll bow out.
@TishaBuv, I had proposed to him that we file jointly because it's cheapest. I know he won't file on his own.

Not sure what you mean by your last two sentences? Yes, it is separate from the legal process of divorce logistically, but emotionally, it's all a part of the same process for me. You seem frustrated and I don't understand why?
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Last edited by Have Hope; Jan 01, 2021 at 08:36 AM.