It’s really mind boggling to me. If you two made that much money how can’t he not afford movers. I could afford movers on 50k. Everyone can afford movers. What’s going on. Maybe he needs to quit weed. Or whatever other BS that eats his pay check

Apartment deposit is given back when you are moving out. I doubt landlord would give partial deposit when one person is moving out? Don’t know. Never had that situation but able bodied man should have money for movers or should have a place to borrow it from or he shouldn't be getting married

So you gave him money out of your own bank account so he can move crap out. I hate this guy. He is still living off you and you don’t even have a job!