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Old Jan 01, 2021, 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
It’s really mind boggling to me. If you two made that much money how can’t he not afford movers. I could afford movers on 50k. Everyone can afford movers. What’s going on. Maybe he needs to quit weed. Or whatever other BS that eats his pay check

Apartment deposit is given back when you are moving out. I doubt landlord would give partial deposit when one person is moving out? Don’t know. Never had that situation but able bodied man should have money for movers or should have a place to borrow it from or he shouldn't be getting married

So you gave him money out of your own bank account so he can move crap out. I hate this guy. He is still living off you and you don’t even have a job!

I know, right? I also did it because one of his cats requires dental work that costs $1000, and I do NOT want to be the reason why the cat cannot have the work done. I just know that he will find SOME WAY to blame me and use the money against me IF I kept it.

He is officially moving out and is owed this deposit money. That's how it worked out with our landlord - I pay my husband his portion of the deposit and a roommate will pay me OR the landlord pays ME the full deposit when I move out.

Remember, my husband is a BIG spender. He doesn't know how to budget and he runs out of money before his next paycheck nearly every single month.
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