Okay so I live with 2 other patients and they are both really loud and my question is when they start commenting on me what should I do? Should I tell them I dont feel up to chatting today?should I just be loud aswell and hope they respond to me or should I just go with the flow and not say anything only if its necessary My last conversion was about the mug i got and she said it was hers and I told her that fuzzy bear gave me that cup but still she starts a fight and said its hers and I shouldnt be using it? "life is sweet" onto the cup made me feel suicidal for that 5mins of hell.