i'd say it is best to avoid engaging in fights like this in my opinion. Definitely avoid escalating these things and decline if you're not in the mood at the moment. Is it Possible to go away from these People if they bother you constantly? Sending many Safe, Warm hugs to
BOTH you, @princesscookie19, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!