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Old Jan 02, 2021, 10:01 AM
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REALLY???????

JUST REALLY?????????

AFTER telling him how I hate him and think he's a despicable person, hours later he texts me to inform me (again) that he has low blood oxygen level and needs another covid test tomorrow. I asked him why he is telling me this, and if that means he will not be at our apartment on Sunday moving his things out and he says, well, if I had learned that you were severely sick, I would still care.

YET ANOTHER ATTEMPT AT MANIPULATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHEN DOES THIS END WITH HIM?

SOOOOOOO... I told him - look., I told you how I feel about you, but I do not wish ill upon you.

GEEZ!! He's sooooooooo melodramatic - he hasn't even had a covid test yet - he's NOT in the hospital and he's NOT on a respirator! For the love of God.
To add to this post:

He said he was scared for his health. I told him he's being very melodramatic because he hasn't had a covid test yet, and he doesn't yet know if he has covid. I also told him I am no longer that person he turns to. I told him to call his parents, his doctor or a friend.

How can I be supportive of someone who has abused me so badly and then cheated on me in the end?

Sure, I told him I do not wish ill upon him anymore - that I wish for a full recovery and I wished him well. At the same time, I put up a boundary.
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