Nammu, though phrasing a request without a question is something I could consider (re ordering at restaurant), it sounds like you're saying it is my fault by the way I phrase the statement / question, and I disagree. People's ****** behavior is on them.

Divine1966, I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who this has happened to. It really helps to know that I'm not alone (in disliking it and also experiencing it).