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TishaBuv
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Default Jan 03, 2021 at 08:37 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Lunatyc View Post
I have found that the equality questionnaires I have had to fill in, in the past usually have the options on orientation as, heterosexual or homosexual or prefer not to disclose.
Now of course, times are advancing and there is a myriad of ways to describe a person's orientation. And to describe one's gender.
Me, I am female and homosexual on paper. I feel mundane and boring when I fill out a dating app profile. No I'm not vegan. No I'm not pansexual. No I don't attend pride. I'm Liberal but more towards the centre. I skip those with the future is female t shirts. I hate labels and boxes at the best of times and these sites are
provocateurs ofpigeon hole choices.
Alas, hold on a moment, maybe I am a little gender fluid with fashion. But I'm not actually gender fluid. Or is that just being a bit of a tomboy?
D### it I won't try and be cool. I am going to try using the dating apps designed for straight people and those who are gay.
I don’t think you sound mundane or boring. You have every right to be referred to as what you prefer. Hopefully others will respect it, when you tell them.

I’m the last of the Boomers. It’s fascinating to me how all the new terminology has replaced that from ‘my time’. BTW- You’re never too old to be fashionable.

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