For me, it seems to be unconditional love, attentiveness, listening to me, validating me, being there for me as soon as she can. She explained that there's stages. Like one stage is where the child is playing on the playground away from mom. She gets scared, runs back to mom for a hug, then returns to playing. Another is like when you're a teenager. You are ready to explore the world, but you still need mom there. You don't need her like you did on the playground, but you need her to be there still for support.

That's all I understand so far.