Well, he has tried to flip the tables on me, trying to make me feel badly about myself and make me feel less than the amazing person I know I am.

I refuse to allow this. My worth is not defined by HIM. My value in this world and my self esteem are not built around what HE thinks of me.

And he is lashing out at me, trying anything and everything to deflect responsibility onto me for his abuse.

It's been a very up and down process for me - but I am slowly emerging as a much stronger, more resilient and confident woman.