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Old Jan 03, 2021, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by TunedOut View Post
That you found yourself saying: he appalls and disgusts me and is a despicable human being. makes me think you are also dealing with an anxious sort of depression IMO, while it might be good to express feelings like this once, if you are doing this over and over, you need help with this. I know you are getting care for you mental health issues. Have you been talking to them about your anger issues? I know you have been viewing many videos about narcissism. Have you viewed these?

@TunedOut, your post really rubs me the wrong way. it is very ignorant about abuse and full of blame. I am not an angry person in general, and I do not have "anger issues" as you so incorrectly labeled me as having. Naturally, I am reacting to all the abuse I have experienced in my marriage, and naturally I am angry and enraged at him for how he has treated me. Please refrain from victim blaming because that is what this post is about.
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