Quote:
Originally Posted by Have Hope
@ TunedOut, your post really rubs me the wrong way. it is very ignorant about abuse and full of blame. I am not an angry person in general, and I do not have "anger issues" as you so incorrectly labeled me as having. Naturally, I am reacting to all the abuse I have experienced in my marriage, and naturally I am angry and enraged at him for how he has treated me. Please refrain from victim blaming because that is what this post is about. |
@
Have Hope I know how scary divorce can be because there is so much at stake. A family member went through it and had to work through a lawyer because it was so contentious. If he is the only one you get angry about, that is a good thing. I shared those videos because the stress of divorce can cause us other problems until it is finalized. I admit to judging this--when you told him "he appalls and disgusts me and is a despicable human being"-- I thought to myself that these words are better left unsaid. Sorry. Perhaps I also should have kept my thoughts to myself...