Unfortunately we can't really tell you what to do as we don't know in full detail what the situation with your girlfriend, not to mention that it is YOU that have to make the final decision in my opinion. That said, i'd suggest to consider how the relationship with your girlfriend is going in other aspects. Is she usually controllong or is this the only occasion she has ever told you what to do? How important is for you going out with your friends compared to the rest? I'd say it is REALLY important to make this kind of analysis and to seriously talk about this with her. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @romanticbigman, your Family, your Friends, your Girlfriend and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!