((((((((((((( wounded1 )))))))))))))))))))
Such a harsh and difficult realization to come to. I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
Hopefully in time, you will be able to see that you had done everything in your power to make the relationship work. You cannot make someone do anything they are not willing to do. The only control you have is over yourself.....and now it's time to take care of #1.
I too am going through a breakup of my marriage. I understand the greiving, the loss, the anger, and even the fear, and how my mind can accept it's over, but my heart refuses to let go just yet (if ever).
I wish you well....and I hope you are able to take time for you and be good to yourself....you deserve it!

sabby