My grrrrrrr bear is not at all endearing to some It hurts having to muzzle her all the time. She was muzzled (by force) since I was born. People do not like it that she says how she feels and does not agree with the opinions of the majority

I have to muzzle her (and me) with Papa bear (my husband) too..

I was told by someone I am ''weak''..... this was a while ago. I don't know why I ''allow'' idiots like that to get to me. I do not even like this person (not anyone here) I think it gets to me as I was abused by similar Narcissists all through my cubhood.

I think people like that see the ''child'' in me and want to hurt her. Bully for them I guess