Ever felt that you don’t fit the world and don’t find anybody who understand you? You have been labelled as different since you were a kid and you don’t understand why. You immediately think that there’s something wrong with being yourself. And you unconsciously think that you are defective.
So as to believe this judgement.
And you don’t find a way to be as you really are because it will surely be criticised or treat as if you were stupid, different, from another planet.