My husband of 20 years just left me at thanksgiving. We have 5 children together 2 are grown and moved out. I’m so heartbroken that he could leave his family at the holidays like this. Just packed up and left while I was at work and kids were with my mom. He just said he isn’t happy and he will always love me. The reasons he gave are so strange like he doesn’t want me to butt in when he is disabling the kids. He also doesn’t like the kids rooms being messy. Everything the kids do gets blamed on me. He lied to me saying he gave money to a man at his works wife while he was in jail but I found out from his mom that he was hiding money and bought a trailer that he filled with stuff he wants to hide and not split in a divorce. I’m so confused he still puts money in the joint account and even got it on with me on Christmas but lives somewhere else. I do everything for the kids and house. I am the only one that’s cooks cleans does all the normal stuff for kids for school and appointments. He just works but so do I. I’m the only one that does the yard work too. He actually said he does everything and the only thing he does is go to work. I literally do everything else. He has never even go to school conferences or doctor appointments for the kids.