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I view sex as an important and key element in a relationship. But I view it as a way to emotionally connect with my husband on a level that no one else in the world can. I dont focus on something frisky ending in intercourse or even foreplay for that matter. I just enjoy the imtimacy of making out or whatever and where it leads, it leads. I think its important to get to the root of why this is so important to you in the sense of how you feel valued or devalued. An example would be if you are doing all of these nice things for your wife and she never acknowledges your help or says thank you or looks at it as an expectation then naturally you will feel devalued. But feeling that way and then seeking the value through sex is kind of hollow. But I dont want you to see any strong opinions here as people thinking you are an evil asshole.
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