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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
The thing, in my opinion, is how you react afterwards. There’a not a prefixed time to make a decision. This delayed reaction maybe be as harmful as a soon reaction. But, usually is better to take a time to reflect,. Another thing to take into account is how the other person is ready for listening to you and is into communication.
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I agree, the delayed reaction is usually worse than immediately reacting then letting it go. The delayed reaction gives me time to grasp the full meaning of what happened and I get more hurt and angry about it. I handle it by discussing when I want that to help and saying nothing when I know it won’t.