So now that I get the $300 per week unemployment boost, I can actually afford our full rent by myself through March. This is a HUGE relief!!!!! It gives me more time to find a job, though I still feel pressured to get a job ASAP. It's been very slow going through the entire holiday season starting with Thanksgiving, but now it seems to be picking up again. I'm just thankful I do not have to dip into my bank loan in order to afford rent. This extra money gives me breathing room and eases my anxiety quite a bit.
And my husband and I have exchanged very few words since Sat. He tried once again to manipulate me last week by telling me if I will allow him more time to move his stuff out, he will pay the Feb cable bill - I was like, our agreement was that you would have ALL your belongings moved out by JAN 31! He will have had TWO FULL MONTHS to move out! That's more than ample time he's had.
So now he's trying to drag it out even further - NUH UH - not happening. Then again, it's all on HIM to accomplish so it's mainly out of my control.
He has his $900 this month, so there's no reason why he cannot hire movers to move the bigger items by the end of this month. He's only paying $500 in rent now too, so that also gives him an extra $400 this month. If he cannot swing it, I am going to be livid.
He kept his belongings at his ex wife's home for THREE YEARS!!!!!!!! I am NOT going to be HER in this scenario. I am trying to add it into our divorce agreement that he must have all stuff gone by Jan 31.
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"Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination"
~4 Non Blondes
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