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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
What you said about how your mom is always on the other side, and how you are sure how your mean joking family would tear you to shreds too, I totally relate to and you are the first one here to articulate that (I hadn’t to myself).
Have you read about Childhood Emotional Neglect?
Also, there are many psychological articles to read on ‘what is a healthy relationship, family or any other’. No, yours is not healthy. The fact you sound so alone and cry tells you something isn’t right.
Identifying and learning about it is a good step to start your journey of self care.  |
I've read a few, though I still want to know some examples from real people, it's just hard to believe that my family is 'that' toxic, i mean.. It's just hard to believe those who I'm usually living with and those who said they love me are actually not good for me.
But yes, you're right there is something wrong if I cry and feel so alone. Though sometimes my mind tells me that I'm just feeling 'temporarily fatigued' so there shouldn't be anything wrong.
I just kinda want examples from other people so I can compare the experience of this 'good' and 'bad' families